Recently, we had to consciously include this question “Are you attracted to someone other than your spouse?” in our counselling sessions. The reason being that most couples dealing with issues tend to blame their spouse for the issues or assume that they need a new partner to be happy again.
Ngee says… A bull charges without thinking of anything that comes its way, especially if it comes in red! Many couples are like the bull charging over every single conversation or action by their spouse. So today we want to remind you ‘don’t be bull headed’, for the result might
This is exactly five months after the Lekki toll gate massacre. Many have gone back to living their daily lives. But many are not noticing that an agitation is brewing and if not managed, will bring regrettable consequences. The story of Nigeria is like the story of Nepal in 2015.
Ngee says… Do not lose your voice for it is a crucial part of our fundamental human right. A while ago, I got into an argument with some of my in-laws. They had posed a fact that was not entirely true. I tried to speak up but even my husband
“We’ve learned that quiet isn’t always peace…” This was the part of Amanda Gorman’s poem that resonated with me the most during Joe Biden and Kamala Harris inauguration. As a counsellor, I have come to realize that many homes live in an illusion of peace, never understanding the need of
Ngee says… Learning to combat your thoughts is a crucial aspect of life. I remember vividly after our wedding, we were unpacking my suitcases and my husband picked up a frame of my ex-boyfriend and I. Boy, was I shocked! How did I make such a grievous mistake? It took
Few days ago, I heard in my spirit; be still. Declutter your mind! Spend time in my presence! If you know me, you know that I am fervent in prayers. Like clock work, I pray morning and night. Now the Holy Spirit says I need to spend time in His
Ngee says… when I was younger, I drove frequently through a secondary school that had an inscription on it – may your road be rough! I felt quite uncomfortable, each time I drove pass. Years have gone by and I realized that this was meant to be a great prayer.
One of my staff liked sharing her favourite quote – “talk is cheap, action is expensive”. It usually brought a smile to our faces because we have found a wide gap between the talkers and those who follow through with action. I am a talker myself, yet I have learnt
Ngee says… A couple of times, we had to counsel couples at the verge of divorce. Their bags were packed to leave and they came for counselling for just one reason; for confirmation that they were making the right choice. At least 60% of these couples got back home restored