Stumbling Blocks Or Role Models
Ngee says…
| Rich says..
Children are our real seeds, we can choose how we sow them, cultivate them & cause them to flourish intentionally. Don’t forget we reap what we sow! |
Your marriages are a reflection of us. Our marriage is the 1st reality our children see. Children at the young age of 0-12years, tend to emulate their parents. This simply means that by the time our children can differentiate between the right & wrongs in our relationships (marriage & other relationships) they would have unconsciously imbibed some characteristics we would have wished for them not to have,
if given a second chance to replay the event.
DON’T FORGET! MOST OF THE TIME OUR CHILDREN ARE A REFLECTION OF US….
Take, Chioma & Ikechukwu for example; they have 2 children and for the 30 years these children have known their parents, they haven’t seen them hug, laugh or share common stuff together. What do you think will happen to the children when they do get married…? They will both encounter situations/difficulties in that particular area, which could lead to a divorce and heartache.
Let’s rethink our choices … The way we portray our marriages and other relationships in front of our children, and the lasting effect it has on them.
BONDING TIME— share a day together as a family outside the home. It could be the park/cinema or just take a walk. Meditate on Romans 14:13 & 2 Corinthians 9:6…
Love,
Ngee & Rich
Founders of Keeping Marriage Alive Initiative
“Will two people walk together unless they have agreed to do so?” Amos 3:3 (CEB).
