I learnt a crucial lesson on the price of ‘short cut’ beginning of this year. The lesson i learnt is what i want to share with you dear friend.

Two years back, i realized i was having little rashes on my face. I asked around for the fastest way to treat the rashes and a tube cream was recommended.

The cream had an instruction to be used for 7days. I used it for the 7days it cleared but the rashes returned after 3days. I began to use a cream recommended for 7days for nearly 2years.

We travelled as a family and while unpacking, i realized that i forgot the ‘antidote’ for my face.

As usual after 3days the rashes came out in multitudes. So i decided to pray and i heard –“how long will you apply a short term solution to a long term problem? As i listened, i began to ask myself if i will be able to use this cream for the next 40 – 50years? The answer was ‘NO’.

I then took 3 deliberate steps to solve my facial rashes:
1) I stopped hiding my facial problem.
2) I listened to advise and read through till i got an idea of what my skin needed.
3) I took natural steps which took 3months for my face to become normal again.

Process or replicable systems are very important in solving the problems we are facing. It’s usually not a quick fix but the end result will be good.

Dear friend, whatever you are going through has a solution and an expiry date but you are required to take some deliberate steps:
1) Identity the problem(stop denying it).
2) Research on it, ask those who have gone through it, meet professionals, read books etc.
3) Begin to take consistent action
– Learning, unlearning, forgiving, yourself and others till you arrive at your expected goal(s).

Love,
Ngee & Rich
Founders of Keeping Marriage Alive Initiative

“Will two people walk together unless they have agreed to do so?” Amos 3:3 (CEB).