LOVE MAKING (SEX).

Ngee says…

Hmm!! Sex or love making as I prefer to call it, has caused controversies. I’m really not here to argue but to share with you what I learnt at the feet of Jesus, when we had to face issues in this area. Hope it helps anyone who’s willing to learn and save their marriage, as it did mine.

Love making—is the covenant of marriage.

God ordained love making to show how intimately close two people can become.” I personally see love making as the purest form of love & passion with God at the center”.  When couples are “making love”, they are saying to each other =”I love you. You are the most important person in my life. I will share this only with you”.

To truly enjoy the passion in its most wonderful form; it has to be God centered and spouse centered.

Vices that destroy love making and turn it into just mechanism or fulfillment of self.

1.      When we think of self

2.      When we create fixed images through pornography etc(this in itself is a sin).

3.      When we don’t lift it in prayer always. Never asking God for creativity and new consistent ways.

4.      When we don’t learn to be comfortable with each other’s body.

Rich says…

Viewing marriage as an engine block, vital for life. Love making is the oil that keeps the engine running smoothly.

Bonding time—  Read songs of Solomon to each other. Making use of the bible that shows where the man speaks to the woman & the woman doing the same, while cuddling each other.

 

Love,

Ngee & Rich       

Founders of Keeping Marriage Alive Initiative

“Will two people walk together unless they have agreed to do so?” Amos 3:3 (CEB).