My Love My Baby
“Until you see that dream or person you love as though it where a baby that needs your tender, Sincere and undivided love and care- you have not done enough”.
It takes the coming together of two people (Man & Woman) to perform the act of reproduction; after the meeting, a baby is conceived and in little or no time grows within the mother’s womb; after 9 months, the baby is born and joy is in the air.
The focus here is not the birth of the child but the care and growth of the baby; giving him\her the right immunization, protection and supervision required. Most times this duty is left to the woman alone while the man chases the wealth and provides for the family as they say “wealth is health” no wonder babies call mama first before papa. Though the man is right in going out to find a means of providing for his family, the joint care of the child should be placed as priority.
A baby not well taken care of can be exposed to:
- Diseases\sickness.
- Sense of loneliness.
- Corruption.
- Bad Habits& Attitudes
- Death
As it is physically, so it is emotionally. I believe love, to be a baby conceived and birthed in our hearts, the day we make the choice of who and whom\what our feelings should be directed to. It starts as little as a foetus and grows into a baby, more so a child, boy\girl, man\woman as the case may be. Most times we only receive the joy when it is birthed but refuse to nurse or take care of the feelings, this attitude affects our individual relationships and lives. We find ourselves facing different symptoms from sickness to infidelity to weakness to hatred, or even the death of the relationship. If only we could devote ourselves to growth; making up our mind to increase and not decrease our feelings and passion; am sure there would be a difference . Not only in our love life do we need such devotion, determination and care but in all our endeavours. ·
Our Work needs such commitment and care.
· Our Friendship needs such care and devotion.
· Our Faith needs such care and devotion.
· Our Personal life needs such care and commitment.
· We need to put effort into whatever we love.
· We ought not to give up on whatever we love.
· We have to devote time to our personal relationship.
A closing note to everyone is “Until you see that dream\ person you love as though it where a baby who needs your tender, sincere, undivided love and care you might miss out the key issue to a successful relationship and life.
Love,
Ngee & Rich
Founders – Keeping Marriage Alive Initiative.
“Will two people walk together unless they have agreed to do so?” Amos 3:3 (CEB)
